Champion Mom - How to Respond to Your Child's Big Feels

By: bchauveau Sunday August 28, 2022 comments

When your child is experiencing strong emotions, it's important to respond in a way that supports their emotional well-being and helps them feel understood. Here are some tips on how to respond to your child's big feelings:

  1. Validate their emotions: Let your child know that their feelings are important and that it's okay to feel what they're feeling. Avoid telling them how they should feel or dismissing their emotions.

  2. Listen actively: Pay attention to what your child is saying and how they're expressing themselves. Encourage them to talk about their feelings and ask open-ended questions to help them articulate their thoughts.

  3. Provide comfort: Offer your child a hug or physical comfort if they want it. Sometimes just knowing that you're there and you care can make a big difference.

  4. Help them identify their emotions: If your child is having trouble putting words to their feelings, help them identify what they're feeling by naming some common emotions (e.g. happy, sad, frustrated, angry, scared).

  5. Problem-solve together: If your child is upset about something specific, work together to come up with a plan to address the issue. This can help them feel empowered and in control of the situation.

  6. Model healthy emotional expression: Your child will learn how to handle their emotions by watching how you handle yours. Model healthy emotional expression by talking about your own feelings and how you cope with them.

  7. Seek additional support if needed: If your child's big feelings are causing significant distress or are interfering with their daily life, it may be helpful to seek additional support from a mental health professional or other qualified provider.

Remember, responding to your child's big feelings with empathy and understanding can help them feel seen and heard, and can set the foundation for healthy emotional development.

 

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